Music is a beautiful and peaceful artform and that is the only way women and children could like it.
If you see it as a scam for groupies, I guarantee then that girls won't like you because their self-preservation instincts are a deep force of nature. In fact, the self-preservation instincts of half the human race have to be counted as one of the most powerful forces of nature on the surface of the globe. You'll see.
As a public face of this scam belief, you will not be able to walk onto a public street without every bastard taking one look at you and thinking, "Fucken it's all right for some! I'd like a bit of that!" and you will need expensive security until you are forgotten or dead.