The number of times you have had sex is irrelevant. Please remember that.
From a young age like 14, boys in New Zealand are hit very hard with a hate on the mere suspicion of being a virgin. This hate is so intense that it causes many suicides and has most guys running around desperate enough to almost do murder just to say they've done it. Of course that's not going to be very attractive to girls or make any of these people very good company.
What's more, this completely unnecessary hate causes a monumental number of date rapes that are swept under the carpet, partly because the legal system would be so inundated with these cases that it would choke and grind to a halt, so a girl is just called a "silly little bitch" for telling such stories and schollumised with a baton over a table at the cop shop for her troubles.
One very big reason it's a problem is that even once you've lost your virginity the hate doesn't stop. If it were just a case of giving that pound of flesh once and then moving on with your life, that would be one thing, but that's not enough. It's just the first step into an assimilation into what I call The Big Fucking; the way private lives in our culture are rigged. Having all the little guys running around crazy and destroying everything creates a diversion jamming the radar of anybody who wants to put their finger on the cause of society's problems.
As a little guy, you just have to keep using the same dodgy tactics again and again getting more and more angry at women because you're not scoring as much as you have to say you are, and then money takes over some time in your mid twenties, like a bigger wheel that controls the smaller one. Then it's both money and pussy you kill for with a smile as you cement your place forever as another cold-hearted old devilman.
